lovin’ feeling?
2007-10-24 18:25:10Has your relationship lost the spark that it once had? Do you remember
when you had butterflies in your tummy when the phone rang, hoping it
was them? When you just couldn’t wait to see them again? When their
smell, smile or look in their eyes …
Now you think to yourself…what happened? How did we lose that “lovin’
feeling’? Where did it all go? You look at your partner and see all the
things that are “wrong” with them. They don’t smile any more…and
neither do you. And…their smell…well they can go take a shower!
It’s not uncommon to hear that the things that once turned each other
on now turn each other off. What once was cute is now annoying. What
once you tolerated is now intolerable.
Well, what did happen? Probably the very two things that destroy most
relationships – unfulfilled love strategies and a whole bunch of
negative associations.
Let’s talk about love strategies. What is a love strategy? It’s what
needs to happen in order for you to feel loved? How do you know what
your love strategy is? Simple…just answer this question, “What needs to
happen in order for me to feel loved?” Is it that simple? Well, it’s a
simple question, however the answer can be quite complex…depending on
how many rules you have for being loved like a Subaru Shocks
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